{"id":5457,"date":"2025-09-17T14:43:14","date_gmt":"2025-09-17T09:13:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ksrini.life\/29035f-co-nz\/journal\/?p=5457"},"modified":"2025-09-17T14:43:14","modified_gmt":"2025-09-17T09:13:14","slug":"how-forgiveness-impacts-mental-health-and-relieves-stress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ksrini.life\/29035f-co-nz\/journal\/how-forgiveness-impacts-mental-health-and-relieves-stress\/5457\/","title":{"rendered":"How Forgiveness Impacts Mental Health and Relieves Stress"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Forgiveness can benefit our mental health and lower stress.<\/p>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_1-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">Forgiving someone who has wronged us is beneficial to our mental health and is associated with lower levels of stress.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_2-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"health-sc-block-callout--takeaway-large_1-0\" class=\"comp health-sc-block-callout--takeaway-large health-sc-block-callout-base mntl-sc-block-callout mntl-block theme-takeaway-large theme-takeaway-large\" data-tracking-id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout\" data-tracking-container=\"true\">\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout-body_1-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block-callout-body mntl-text-block expert-content\">\n<p>The true meaning of forgiveness is intentionally deciding to let go of anger and resentment and feeling empathy and compassion for the person who hurt us.<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-1\">1<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_4-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">This article explores the true meaning of\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/the-benefits-of-forgiveness-3144954\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\">forgiveness<\/a>, how it affects mental health, and tips for those who struggle to forgive others\u2014and themselves.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_5-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<h2 id=\"mntl-sc-block_6-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block health-sc-block-heading mntl-sc-block-heading\"><span class=\"mntl-sc-block-heading__text\">What Is the True Meaning of Forgiveness?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_7-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">We\u2019ve all been hurt by someone\u2019s words or actions; however, moving on or ignoring what happened does not mean we have forgiven them.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_8-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\">\n<div id=\"mm-ads-native_1-0\" class=\"comp mm-ads-native \" data-right-rail-index=\"1\">\n<div id=\"mm-ads-native__adunit_1-0\" class=\"comp mm-ads-native__adunit mm-ads-gpt-dynamic-adunit mm-ads-gpt-adunit scads-to-load gpt native dynamic js-immediate-ad js-immediate-ad-loaded\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_9-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">The true meaning of forgiveness is intentionally deciding to let go of anger and resentment and feeling empathy and compassion for the person who hurt us.<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-1\">1<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_10-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_11-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">The abuse or harmful behavior may still be unacceptable and not forgiven\u2014but if you can empathize with the pain or circumstances the person was facing\u2014your resentment and agony could decrease with this understanding to ultimately reduce your own suffering.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_12-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_13-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">A common misunderstanding of forgiveness is that it is associated with reconciliation. For instance, you are estranged from your parent due to a history of child abuse and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/neglect-and-your-health-7167579\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\">neglect<\/a>. Forgiving them does not necessarily mean you need to rebuild a relationship or even be in contact with them. It can be done by yourself.<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-1\">1<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_14-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"health-sc-block-featuredlink--related_1-0\" class=\"comp health-sc-block-featuredlink--related health-sc-block-featuredlink-base mntl-sc-block-featuredlink mntl-block related-link related-link freemarker.template.FalseTemplateBooleanModel@3ae65526 theme-related\"><a id=\"mntl-sc-block-featuredlink__link_1-0\" class=\"mntl-sc-block-featuredlink__link mntl-text-link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/forgiveness-and-letting-go-in-marriage-2300611\" rel=\"nocaes\" data-tracking-container=\"true\" data-tracking-id=\"featured-link\"><span class=\"link__wrapper\">How to Forgive Your Partner Who Has Hurt You<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_16-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<h2 id=\"mntl-sc-block_17-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block health-sc-block-heading mntl-sc-block-heading\"><span class=\"mntl-sc-block-heading__text\">What Are the Three Aspects of Forgiveness?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_18-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">There are 3 aspects of forgiveness:<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-2\">2<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_19-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<h3 id=\"mntl-sc-block_21-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-subheading\"><span class=\"mntl-sc-block-subheading__text\">Forgiving Another Person(s)<\/span><\/h3>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_22-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">This aspect of forgiveness is the most commonly talked about. It involves interpersonal forgiveness between two or more people.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_23-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_24-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">Some examples of the issue include:<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_25-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<ul id=\"mntl-sc-block_26-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">\n<li>Betrayal of\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/how-to-build-trust-in-a-relationship-5207611\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\">trust<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Words of insensitivity<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/what-is-aggression-2794818\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"2\">Aggressive<\/a>\u00a0behavior<\/li>\n<li>Physical altercations<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_27-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"health-sc-block-callout--takeaway_1-0\" class=\"comp health-sc-block-callout--takeaway health-sc-block-callout-base mntl-sc-block-callout mntl-block theme-takeaway theme-takeaway\" data-tracking-id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout\" data-tracking-container=\"true\">\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout-body_2-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block-callout-body mntl-text-block expert-content\">\n<p>Factors that influence the likelihood of forgiveness include the value and type of the relationship, the probability of the harm occurring again, and the severity of the offense.<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-2\">2<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3 id=\"mntl-sc-block_30-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-subheading\"><span class=\"mntl-sc-block-subheading__text\">Forgiving Oneself<\/span><\/h3>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_31-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">Forgiving yourself for your own wrongdoing may require the most effort since you might feel sadness regarding something you said, did, or didn&#8217;t do.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_32-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"health-sc-block-callout--center-bold_1-0\" class=\"comp health-sc-block-callout--center-bold health-sc-block-callout-base mntl-sc-block-callout mntl-block theme-center-bold theme-center-bold\" data-tracking-id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout\" data-tracking-container=\"true\">\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout-body_3-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block-callout-body mntl-text-block expert-content\">\n<p>Forgiving yourself for your own wrongdoing requires the most effort.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_34-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">Not forgiving yourself can lead to feelings of shame, guilt and self-defeat and detrimental health outcomes such as depression and suicide.<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-2\">2<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_35-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"health-sc-block-callout--takeaway_2-0\" class=\"comp health-sc-block-callout--takeaway health-sc-block-callout-base mntl-sc-block-callout mntl-block theme-takeaway theme-takeaway\" data-tracking-id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout\" data-tracking-container=\"true\">\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout-body_4-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block-callout-body mntl-text-block expert-content\">\n<p>If you are having suicidal thoughts, contact the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/suicidepreventionlifeline.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"externalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\">National Suicide Prevention Lifeline<\/a>\u00a0at\u00a0<strong>988<\/strong>\u00a0for support and assistance from a trained counselor. If you or a loved one are in immediate danger, call 911.<\/p>\n<p>For more mental health resources, see our\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/national-helpline-database-4799696\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"2\">National Helpline Database<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3 id=\"mntl-sc-block_38-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-subheading\"><span class=\"mntl-sc-block-subheading__text\">Forgiving the Situation or Circumstance<\/span><\/h3>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_39-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">This aspect of forgiveness involves events that are not within the control of the person. Some examples include a pandemic,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/coping-with-natural-disasters-2797570\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\">natural disasters<\/a>\u00a0such as earthquakes, floods, and hurricanes, the death of a loved one, and receiving a diagnosis for a life-threatening condition.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_40-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_41-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">These situations make people angry; they may blame God, and feel helpless, powerless, and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/9-things-to-do-if-you-feel-hopeless-5081877\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\">hopeless<\/a>. If a person is unable to forgive, they may develop a negative view of the world.<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-2\">2<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_44-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<h2 id=\"mntl-sc-block_45-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block health-sc-block-heading mntl-sc-block-heading\"><span class=\"mntl-sc-block-heading__text\">Ways Forgiveness Affects Mental\u00a0Health\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_46-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">There are several ways that forgiveness positively impacts our mental health.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_47-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<h3 id=\"mntl-sc-block_49-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-subheading\"><span class=\"mntl-sc-block-subheading__text\">Improves Mental Health\u00a0Outcomes<\/span><\/h3>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_50-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">Forgiveness can help reduce depression, anxiety, and major psychiatric disorders.<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-1\">1<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_51-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_52-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">A longitudinal study on female nurses looked at the forgiveness of others and health and well-being in mid-life. Results showed that forgiveness was significantly associated with better psychosocial well-being outcomes such as\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/positive-affect-and-stress-3144628#:~:text=%22Positive%20affect%22%20refers%20to%20one's,negativity%20in%20relationships%20and%20surroundings.\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\">positive affect<\/a>\u00a0and social integration and decreased psychological distress outcomes such as depressive symptoms. It concluded that forgiveness may have population mental health implications in promoting psychosocial well-being.<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-3\">3<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_53-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"health-sc-block-callout--takeaway_3-0\" class=\"comp health-sc-block-callout--takeaway health-sc-block-callout-base mntl-sc-block-callout mntl-block theme-takeaway theme-takeaway\" data-tracking-id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout\" data-tracking-container=\"true\">\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout-body_5-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block-callout-body mntl-text-block expert-content\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/how-to-develop-self-compassion-4158290\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\">Self-compassion<\/a>\u00a0may be a factor that explains this effect. A study looked at the effect of self-compassion on the relationship between a lack of forgiveness and depressive symptoms. It included 311 participants who completed a self-report questionnaire that assessed their forgiveness, self-compassion, and depressive symptom levels.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_55-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">Results showed that self-compassion moderated the relationship between lack of forgiveness and depression. The researchers explained that self-compassion may help an individual feel positive emotions and view their painful feelings with understanding, kindness, and a sense of shared humanity which may allow them to forgive more easily.<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-4\">4<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_56-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<h3 id=\"mntl-sc-block_58-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-subheading\"><span class=\"mntl-sc-block-subheading__text\">Lowers Chronic\u00a0Stress<\/span><\/h3>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_59-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">Ruminating over what someone did or how things turned out can make us chronically stressed. Forgiveness can help create peace in our lives and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/how-to-find-emotional-healing-5214462\" data-component=\"link\" data-source=\"inlineLink\" data-type=\"internalLink\" data-ordinal=\"1\">heal emotional wounds<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_60-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_61-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">A study examined the relationship between forgiveness, stress, and changes in mental and physical health. Using a large, community-based sample of 332 participants, the researchers assessed how their levels of forgiveness, stress, and health fluctuate and interrelate over the course of 5 weeks.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_62-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"health-sc-block-callout--takeaway_4-0\" class=\"comp health-sc-block-callout--takeaway health-sc-block-callout-base mntl-sc-block-callout mntl-block theme-takeaway theme-takeaway\" data-tracking-id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout\" data-tracking-container=\"true\">\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout-body_6-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block-callout-body mntl-text-block expert-content\">\n<p>The results showed that increased forgiveness was significantly associated with decreases in stress and mental health symptoms. The researchers suggest there may be a reciprocal effect between stress and forgiveness.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_64-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">For instance, forgiveness may be a coping mechanism used to relieve the perception of stress that is causing mental health symptoms. On the other hand, improved mental health is associated with decreased stress which increases forgiveness.<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-5\">5<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_65-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<h3 id=\"mntl-sc-block_67-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-subheading\"><span class=\"mntl-sc-block-subheading__text\">Prevents Toxic\u00a0Anger\u00a0<\/span><\/h3>\n<div id=\"health-sc-block-callout--takeaway-large_2-0\" class=\"comp health-sc-block-callout--takeaway-large health-sc-block-callout-base mntl-sc-block-callout mntl-block theme-takeaway-large theme-takeaway-large\" data-tracking-id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout\" data-tracking-container=\"true\">\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout-body_7-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block-callout-body mntl-text-block expert-content\">\n<p>Forgiveness can help us let go of resentment, calm our minds, create peace with ourselves, feel less on edge, and improve our energy levels.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_69-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">Feeling angry occasionally is completely normal and healthy. However, constantly feeling angry because you are dwelling on a past injustice can become toxic to your physical, mental, and emotional well-being.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_70-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_71-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">Forgiveness can help us let go of resentment, calm our minds, create peace with ourselves, feel less on edge, and improve our energy levels.<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-1\">1<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_72-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_73-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">Teaching forgiveness to younger populations may help create a less angry future. A meta-analysis reviewed 20 studies from 10 countries across North America, Asia, and Europe that looked at the role of forgiveness in healthy relationships and youth outcomes. It showed that teaching forgiveness education interventions to children and adolescents had a positive effect on forgiveness and anger.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_74-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"health-sc-block-callout--takeaway_5-0\" class=\"comp health-sc-block-callout--takeaway health-sc-block-callout-base mntl-sc-block-callout mntl-block theme-takeaway theme-takeaway\" data-tracking-id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout\" data-tracking-container=\"true\">\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout-body_8-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block-callout-body mntl-text-block expert-content\">\n<p>This effect was evident regardless of whether the school was located in an economically disadvantaged or advantaged area. The researchers suggested that teaching the process of forgiveness can help reduce aggressive behaviors and improve social competence among children.<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-6\">6<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3 id=\"mntl-sc-block_77-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-subheading\"><span class=\"mntl-sc-block-subheading__text\">Rebuilds Self-Esteem<\/span><\/h3>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_78-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">Lastly, forgiveness can have an impact on your self-esteem. Forgiving someone who hurt you by offering empathy and compassion can transform the way you see yourself.<span class=\"mntl-inline-citation mntl-dynamic-tooltip--trigger\" tabindex=\"0\" data-id=\"#citation-1\">1<\/span><\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_79-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<h2 id=\"mntl-sc-block_80-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block health-sc-block-heading mntl-sc-block-heading\"><span class=\"mntl-sc-block-heading__text\">What to Do If You Are Struggling to\u00a0Forgive<\/span><\/h2>\n<p id=\"mntl-sc-block_81-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-html\">It can be difficult to forgive especially if it is something that deeply hurt you. However, there are ways to help you reap the mental health benefits of forgiveness.<\/p>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block_82-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block mntl-sc-block-adslot mntl-block\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"health-sc-block-callout--key-takeaway_1-0\" class=\"comp health-sc-block-callout--key-takeaway health-sc-block-callout-base mntl-sc-block-callout mntl-block theme-key-takeaway theme-key-takeaway\" data-tracking-id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout\" data-tracking-container=\"true\">\n<h3 id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout-heading_1-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block-callout-heading mntl-text-block\">Tips for Forgiveness<\/h3>\n<div id=\"mntl-sc-block-callout-body_9-0\" class=\"comp mntl-sc-block-callout-body mntl-text-block expert-content\">\n<p>Here are some tips to get you started:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Practice empathy:\u00a0<\/strong>Try to put yourself in the other person\u2019s shoes and go through their thoughts and feelings. This can help you understand why they behaved the way they did or said what they said.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Have self-compassion:<\/strong>\u00a0When we have been wronged, we sometimes blame ourselves for being the victim. However, when you treat yourself with compassion, it is easier to forgive yourself. 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